I had a lot of difficulties with the
readings this week… I found many to be conflicting in terms of content and
what’s included in the authors’ analysis and others to be conflicting with my
emotions. I have so much to say about these texts but I’m afraid that the blog
posts and time wont simply cut it!
For example, the chapter titled Defensive
Nationalism seemed to leave out many points that other articles included. This
was evident in the case of how multiculturalism exists in reality versus how it
is presented in the media. This specific article was very supportive of
multiculturalism in South Korea, and did not really mention the hardships of
being a visible other, or someone who does not fit into the standard of Korean
homogeneity. However, other authors, such as Kim Hyun Mee demonstrated the
struggles that migrant women have and the challenges the use of the word multiculturalism in South Korean, which
is exactly the issue that Han Geon Soo considers.
While it was fun to consider what was
missing from the first set of articles, I found other aspects of the idea of
being visible minority in South Korea to be quick interesting, and also
heartbreaking.
Taeyon Kim discusses how Korean women’s
bodies are constructed based off of Neo-Confucian ideal, and how these ideas
continue into the 21st century, allowing for women to get plastic
surgery without much scrutiny as it is apparently supported. That being said, I
found one idea that Kim presented to be contradicting to everything I’ve
already learned about Korean cultures – and other cultures for that matter –
when it comes to assuming White … hegemony? (I’m not sure if this is exactly
where I’m going with this but I’m struggling to find the proper
vocabulary). Kim presents the idea that
Korean women feel the need to change their appearance because of the Western
influence, and that there is a strong desire for women to appear
“Euro-American” (p. 103). This is unlike what I’ve read online which is
strongly against this concept, and instead supports the idea that these
features are still in Korean genes, and these highly idealized Koreans are the
basis for physical change and plastic surgery in South Korean. I understand the
argument that Kim is making concerning uniformity, but I don’t buy 100% of it.
I understand the nationalist drive causing many Korean women to leave the
private sphere for the public sphere, but the ideas about uniformity in Korean
physical appearance seems to be a little flawed, or maybe my perspective is not
correct. I also found it interesting that there was no mention of male plastic
surgery, which I’m sure, occurs. I also thought that this point of uniformity
could potentially be connected to the idea of a homogenized society, a point
that I will return to later.
In the study of foreigners in South Korea,
there is a lot of research in the idea of multiculturalism. Such as what Kim
Hyun Mee and Han Geon Soo present, the idea of multiculturalism in South Korea
is flawed, and is only a means of promoting government propaganda without any actual
social or lawful help. It is a façaçde, and the ideas promoted in the media are
not the reality of those who are not ethnically Korean or even racially
similar. Kim describes it best when she says, “Multiculturalism in Korea is
thus used as a counter-concept to Korea’s violent mono-ethnicity, rather than
its general meaning of recognizing or having a mutual understanding of cultural
difference” (103). I also think its interesting that the migrant women are
used to reinforce the Confucian ideals that Taeyon Kim mentioned earlier. Kim
Hyun Mee states, “…the government’s efforts simply reinforce prevailing
attitudes in Korea of using women as uniform objects to achieve the
state0-building project” (105). Women are consistently being used and not
enforcing their own power. Kim also mentions that, “…foreign men, including
migrant workers who married Korean women, are not supported by any service,
including education” (106). This implies that a true Korean needs a man’s blood
line, and the woman carrying the child has no effect on the outcome of the
child. Therefore the number one criterion of being a Korean citizen is to be a
pure Korean man.
This leads into the gendered citizen that
Insook Kwon discusses. The idea of conscription simply reinforces the neo-Confucian
idea that the men control the public sphere, being visible in the public sphere
allows for a full citizenship, or full consideration by society, while women
are gendered into being bodies that have the ability to create full
citizenships. I think its interesting how from my perspective, the biggest
sacrifice a woman can make is bearing a child, and that I can’t quite think of
the equivalent in men, but in South Korea the sacrifice to the nation is far
greater than any sacrifice a woman could ever make, even though she is bringing
the men into the world. I also find it interesting that when women made their
bodies visible in politics, there was uproar against their position. This was
during the part where Kwon awas describing that the Constitutional Court deemed
that the extra point system violated gender equality, but then the pre/post/and
current conscripts said that their sacrifice to the nation validated a point
system. Their position as men, as being the purest of all Koreans, validated a
system that subordinates women.
My emotions were the worst when it came to
the adoptees. First of all, I cried for basically the whole DanAKADan
documentary. But my tears weren’t for his situation, they were for his mother.
I understand that his mother tried her hardest to create a wonderful life for
her child, but as Dan, and other adoptees in the John D. Palmer reading
describes, there is a sense of something missing, and adoptees struggle to
complete their life. But that feeling of sadness that I get is described best
in Dan’s lyrics, “Would
my family here/feel loved or abandoned/And if I told you the truth/would you
understand it?” I don’t really understand why, but for some reason I identified
with his mother more than I identified with Dan. I would feel so inadequate if
my child, even if it was a biological child, felt that I couldn’t provide
everything that they needed to feel whole.
After
reading the John D. Palmer reading, I understand that there actually are
inadequacies in teaching Korean adoptees about where they are from, and that
adoptive parents need to consider the missing pieces a adoptee might feel, and
that there are also ways of positively presenting a culture but also not
appropriating it (154-156). I think the most important is to not push culture
onto their children. As a child I felt so othered when I had to go to Dharma
school instead of Bible school, or when my parents spoke to me in a different
language compared to my classmates. I get it now, and I embrace my difference,
but I don’t know if I would have been able to if my parents forced me to live a
lifestyle that I didn’t feel comfortable with.
There
are two final points that I’d like to bring up concerning this article. The
first is that I’m interested in the second generation of Korean adoptees: the
children of adoptees. Charlotte brings this up when she says, “We have to start
thinking about the next generations and how the issue of adoption affects each
of our lives” (144). I think that this applies to the current group of children
becoming a part of transracial adoption, but it also applies to the children of
the adoptees. What new identities are being created through this process?
The
second point is kind of a little more controversial. One person being
interviewed, Daniel, makes a point that, “I’ve always felt that, ideally, Korea
could take care of its own, and no one would have to be adopted out of the
country” (161). I understand what Daniel is trying to point out, that there is
a negative view of adoption in South Korea, and this needs to be discussed, and
hopefully changed in the future, and that there are a lot of negative aspects
to transracial adoption. But after reading all the articles about
multiculturalism and homogeneity in South Korea, I also feel like this is making
a full circle into the homogenous culture that is South Korea. It also ties
into the nationalist, self-preservation culture.
This also got me thinking what’s
better in the view of Koreans – transracial adoption or no adoption and higher
amounts of orphans?